Can someone take me seriously please?

Move to New Mexico. Our governor just got through passing LEGISLATION that makes bullying illegal, as if beating on somebody was somehow legal before.

Really Hard Break Up, I Disgust Myself?

So my ex of 7 months (I think he's my ex, I have no idea anymore) and I broke up a few weeks ago. It hit me realllllly hard. He was really my everything, I lost my virginity to him, all I wanted and more. But things changed, so did he, and we decided to end it. The first few days I'd randomly cry throughout the day, always at night, he never left my mind. No matter who I was with, what I was doing or anything. It was a few days before graduation that this happened. Graduation night I went to this party and one of my friends who I know used to like me sophomore year was there. By the end of the night we made out. About a week later, 1 of my other friends of a few years, and his brother, and his brother's ex went to the pool. By the end of the night I made out with him. Than some friends and I went out to this party the other night, I met this really hot guy... we danced, made out, almost hooked up. My ex found out about this and he said I disgust him and called me a hoe, even though I do feel like 1 now... We broke up in the first place because he became really neglectful to me for over a month, not 1 phone call, 10 mins of texts, and he wouldn't see me. But those other guys made me feel at least somewhat wanted... even though I really got nothing out of it. I guess I stopped caring. Like guys tell you whatever you want to hear than toss you to the used junk, so I figured what does it hurt to do it to them. I was having a lot of fun but now looking at myself I'm really not content with who I am, and I don't know what to do.

How long does marijuana stay in your body? Are there ways to speed up the detoxification process?

it usually stays in your body anywhere between 36-72 hours. Drink alot of water! Flush your entire system out with tons of water. Drinking bleach (watered-down obviously) is a risky but sure way to get rid of anything in your system. Hope this helpp!

Did i do the right thing??How can i just move on and stop and being depressed and hurt?

was with my boyfriend for only 3 months but we really fell in love fast, he took me to the nicest places on dates, always bought me flowers, and even talked about having a baby together some day, (Im divorced and have 2 children) He would talk about me and my boys moving in with him and being a family.Just this weekend I was at his house and I was looking for a notebook to write some stuff down, and i noticed he had a list of stuff.. (I later learned it was his AA journal) the list said MY FEARS and 3rd on the list he had written i fear of being gay, and he wrote how he would always wanna be around the guys all the girls liked, and at the end he wrote so what if i am..I told him i read it and confronted him and he freaked out saying when he wrote gay he meant weak, i totally think thats a lie! and i broke up with him, ive ignored all his calls n txts and its killing me!! i need to snap out of this depression,any ideas PLEASE HLP!

Tea good replacement for soda?

I need to kick this Huge soda problem i drink 2 double gulps...will tea sweetened with spenda help me kick this my family are tea drinkers.but we drink water from fossit witch is nasty so when i brew tea will it take some of the harmful nasty stuff out of my water? kuzz i dont wanna go to 7/11 everytime just get buy 25c gallon of water

I have lost feeling of my existence, what should I do?

I sense that I don't have strong feelings towards anything. For example yesterday something bad happened and my family was upset and i should have been upset too, but i wasn't. I didn't care! My friends have always been neglectful and I always call and ask but now I have decided that I don't care and have withdrawn myself from all of my friendships by not contacting them again (yes it is that easy not texting them would make them not my friends). I can't feel happiness and excitement. the other day we were in an event and suddenly a marching band was there with drums and very loud catchy music I could see everybody carried away and dancing to the music but I sat in my place doing nothing because I don't feel like it. I have not been working on my university project because I don't feel like it. I feel that this project is very hard for me and I can't do it (maybe because it is) . I am running behind on my deadline and i have to submit my work but I have no motivation. I think about motivation to work on it all day, but they don't motivate me! I just walk around the house all day doing nothing maybe some tv but nothing more. Do you think I truly exist? If I do what should I do?

If we build more Nuke Plants in the USA, will they be privately owned or publicly owned?

How about a melt down. We don't need more Nuclear power. If every home owned their own power with solar photovoltaic electricity, solar thermal hot water, and residential wind turbines, we would need much less commercial power. CSP (concentrated solar power systems -- those long trows in the desert -- is proven technology. We don't need more nuclear plants. They are not a necessity, and are too dangerous. Unless you like the idea of worrying about melt down as they are now in Japan. Nuclear power plants are only promoted, to try and halt the better move, that people start installing power on every home and business, which is safe, will save families and small business a lot of money in the long run, and power will be distributed. Power companies will lobby like crazy to keep that from happening because their power is in selling power/energy/OIl/coal/Nuclear/Gas at the highest possible cost and keeping energy BIG and centralized.

Are teacher evaluations required by law in VA?

One of my friend's professors has not given the evaluations out that all of her other (and mine own) professors have given. The date for them due is Saturday, so she won't be able to do it. Is it required for a teacher to give the evaluations by law or policy of the colleges? This professor is very neglectful and NEEDS this evaluation so someone can help change for the students. If you could give me links or something, it would be really helpful!

Neglectful Boxing Instructor?

The unsanctioned match will teach you what to do when you're in the ring, my previous coach was the same way with me. I learned more from my unsanctioned fights and my corner men at them then I did from my coach.

Whats wrong with my new samsung laptop mouse pad?

I received a samsung notebook laptop RV series as a graduation gift. It was having major problems with the mouse so i took it back to best buy for a new one. But the new one has the same problem. The problem is this: whenever i use the mouse touch pad thing it starts jumping around my screen and i cant focus it on anything, and it tries to resist moving or moves to slow, and clicks on things by itself. But i noticed that whenever i have it on a flat surface, like my desk, it has these problems, but if its on my lap or held in the air it acts perfectly fine without issue. Whats wrong with it? Please help.

Can anyone help in this awkward situation?

Well I'm not quite sure but have you tried getting some friends to stay with you, instead of you leaving? Sound like the best way to solve it

Webcam security - can people hack in my webcam even though I am not in MSN, etc.?

I have a built-in webcam in my notebook (which I never used before, dunno whether running or not). So whenever I am doing my work on the notebook or browsing the Net, can people actually hack into my webcam and spy on me? I understand that it is possible that people hack into others' PC or webcam, but if I do not turn it on (I dun know how to turn it on anyway), can they still hack into my webcam and spy? Pls advise.

Is there a good online store for Dit Da Jow?

I am constantly warned against this, however, with the amount of time I train I have little time to be shopping for rare and unusual herbs, what is more, I am financially limited. I am told that people often sell week herbs, in plastic bottles that damage the mixture, having not properly aged and having sifted out all the useful herbs prior to use. Has anynyone sampled the jow from http://www.plumdragonherbs.com/, that is not to say there pree brewed but there herb packs. How about the infamous scar family jow's? I am not opposed to buying herb packs, I just do not have time to single out individual herbs and order them all separately. If there is any decent online store you can recommend, please do, I do not want to discontinue my training on account of time or money. Also, do not advise me to get jow from my sense.

Toddy coffee brew, loads of caffeine?

So all the reading out there about the toddy brewing systems say there is far less caffeine and acid in the coffee. So I got one. Brewed it and had two cups this morning with soymilk and holy shat did I get a gnarly buzz. I know its concentrated so I did half toddy half soy. It was so tasty I decided to have another cause thought it was less caffeine. Harsher buzz than sbux 2 shots of espresso. I can handle caffeine. But the toddy made me buzz like a fridge. In a bad way. So do I need to use less concentrate? I usually drink 4 cups in the morning from drip. I love coffee, and toddy makes the best cup but I want to drink it with out the horrible buzz. Possible?

My phone isn't vibrating?

I have a Pantech Impact and just all of a sudden it started not working. The settings says is on vibrate. and i cant hve my phone on loud because i text A LOT. Instead of vibrating its just silent. I've tried turning it off and on again over 10 times and nothing has worked. O and btw my laptp charger isn;t working either... I have an acer notebook? and i plug it in and nothing happens. It showsno sign of the charger being plugged in? ut my sister's lenovo charger works in my laptop ion one certain spot. Any help with either of these?

Could you help me with my relationship stuff?

'm not an extremely attractive guy. Im moderately overweight, but some have said i can be cute. blonde hair and blue eyes give me a little of an edge up on the not so good looking "average joes" I like to think that i posses most of the qualities girls my age(17) desire in a guy. I've only ever had on girlfriend, and she asked me out. as a rebound. albeit lasting 16 months, it was a trainwreck. it wasn't a good first experiance. if anything, it taught me what to NOT do or what i SHOULD avoid for the future. I don't wanna accept that it's truly as simple as girls my age are shallow. I know for a fact it's common for teen's to judge. But i am also a easy going, pretty likable guy. My friends all love me to death, and im always here for them whenever they need ANYTHING. i always try to help and give advice and be there for them. Most of the time, though, this is my downfall. The girls i've asked out in the past, always say "i think of you as too much like a brother" or"We're too good of friends to let a relationship possibly ruin what we have" Now i understand the latter more than the first...but either way, i am sick and tired of feeling lonely. And you can say, well "you shouldn't be lonely if you're not with someone" but the reality is, thats pretty much the basic goal of human life. Being successful, is great, but in almost everyone's definition of success, it includes having someone to share it with. Im an extreme people person. i can be fairly sweet, and romantic. But at the same time, strong and courageous.. i've been told by allllll my friends that im intelligent, which helps about as often as it hurts. The most common, and i guess i could say "best" advice i've gotten with this issue so far, is that i "just have to wait for the right person" but i stopped letting that satisfy my thirst. Why do I HAVE TO WAIT? why do girls never fall madly in love with me? why am i never the reason a person wants to go to school, or the person someone always wants to call and tell all about their issues or whatnot. I am just so annoyed, and frankly saddened by the alarmingly high level of unsupportive, unemotional, neglectful guys getting all these amazing, smart, beautiful and awesome girls. And im not even talking about, the "jocks" or even remotely attractive guys. URG. help?...

Disaster waiting to happen, any advice on how to contain the brewing storm?

I grew up in a really awful situation. My mother was extremely abusive and tormented me growing up. Things got so bad my mind couldn't take it, blacked out after witnessing a friend get hit by a semi, and I can only recall things that had either the strongest emotional effect on me or trivial things like what my teacher's name was in first grade. I could remember faces of people, know my relation to them, but I couldn't remember anything I had done with them or what they were like. Because they expected me to, I began to act a certain way and sorta became someone who wasn't really me when around a whole lot of people. At the end of May last year, I went to the police station and was laughed at, but a DHS lady was kind enough to help me out. I was seriously messed up in the head and wasn't exactly what people would refer to as 'sane'. I started school, met a really good friend of mine who helped me find myself although he didn't really mean to. We get along great, and have for the entire time we've known each other. He's almost everything I look for in a guy. I've only had three relationships, one with a perv who slept with my mother in 8th grade, one in 9th who wanted to be with me because I reminded him of a little girl because of how short I am, and at the end of 9th grade who turned out to be a stalker. I've only ever held hands with a guy, that's as far as I let any of those relationships go. Period. Now, I'm with someone who's become my best friend. He's shown me all kinds of things, taught me more about my Native American heritage, helped me get in touch with my tribal side, taught me myths and stories of old from all over the world, and he helped me find my sanity. He asked me out a little over a week ago, and I'm proud to say he's my boyfriend. Unfortunately, he's staying with his mother in another state for most of the summer. I completely understand, and I don't mind to much. Although I'm a year older than him and I am his first official girlfriend, our families both don't seem to mind. I currently live with my dad and step mom, by the way. I've spent some time with his family, and I really enjoy it so we're fine with that situation. My problem seems to be me. Although he seems to see all this wonderful stuff about me, as I see in him, I still have this innate ringing in the back of my mind that this won't turn out well. Something bad has to happen. I know that there is a very slim chance that we won't last forever like most insane couples seem to believe in High School, but something in my gut says we might. He matches me better than anyone I've ever met. Yet, because of my upbringing and how I grew up in such chaos, my mind seems to think that this will all be for nothing. I can't bring my mind to stop the pessimism and it's driving me insane. He knows about my past, we've discussed it many times, and I've told him my worries and fears. He knows I'm not normal and that my head is still partially warped, and he doesn't mind. He says it makes me who I am, and asked me to simply lean on him. I really want to, but I've fallen in love only once and the situation ended rather badly due to he was more of a child mentally and pretended to be someone he wasn't to get my attention. My feelings were genuine, not a child's crush. I was hurt, and now I'm afraid to love again. Yet, he knows everything, and we've talked about so many things through text since he's as shy as I am and doesn't want anyone overhearing our conversations. We talk everyday, and he knows that all I can see is this ending badly. He understands and always makes me feel better, but when he falls asleep, my mind falls back into the pattern. I don't see myself as good enough for him, but he does. He says sweet things, and asks that I trust him, which I do. I just don't know if I trust myself not to ruin this relationship. Any advice on what in the world I can do to keep myself together? If anything, I want to keep him if I can. There's just something about us, and coming from someone who's extremely analytical about people who best fit with each other and has played match maker a dozen times over for friends and got it right for quite a few years and is only messed up because the other got distracted and regretted it, things just fit. I was born on a full moon, he on a new moon. We have similar personalities and tastes, yet we have enough differences to maintain interesting conversations to the point we never bore each other at all. I can see, so long as neither of us messes with it by doing something we'll later regret, us being together for a long time. And I did step out of my own shoes and pretend to be a third party viewer. I'm only typing this after learning that for the past year we've both had a similar mindset about one another. I simply want to

Steps to restart my Eee pc 1005hab ?

i want to just clear my computer and just start from new. can anybody please tell me what to do to clear my notebook? pleaseee

I have so much bottled up how can i let it out without harming anyone?

most teens complain about there parents "i hate them, they don't let me do anything" and rebel with the parents but the parents aren't necessarily in the wrong. In this case i just believe my parents are terrible parents neglectful, ignorant the works, i won't continue to complain i will get to the point. I try my hardest to not be affected by my parents and go on. In this way though i have always been "too nice" i guess. I am nice to everyone almost all the time to my friends and even my family i bottle up everything else because i just don't want to be negative, mean, bad or whatever. After 19 years i don't think i can take it anymore though but i don't want to just let out bottled emotions on people i care about and not even my parents what can i do?

Is my husband being abusive?

hi. I hate to be on here asking this question but I need answers and this is where there are supposed to be answers! When I met my husband he had just finished with an ugly divorce and had a young son. We were just friends at first and he used to tell me about how his ex wife was very neglectful to their son and how he was always the one taking care of him. He told me about how he suspected that she had "mental problems" and about how she left him and stole his son from him. He really played himself out to be the victim and I believed him and felt sorry for him. We were both in the military and after being friends for about 6 months we started dating and it wasn't long after we moved in together. At first there were some things that seemed off about his behavior (clinginess and pushiness) but I figured it had to be because of how he was hurt in his last marriage. We had two little boys of our own after about a year. Well after we both got out of the military we moved to the state he was from for his son and that is when things changed. I wanted us to get a place right away but he insisted that we should stay at his moms for a couple weeks until we found one versus picking one before we got there. Once we started staying at his moms all hell broke lose! He became very rude and sarcastic to me around his family and I caught him talking badly about me to his family. Two weeks came and he tells me that he wants to buy a house and we should stay at his moms until we can close on one (mind you he is unemployed and had been for a year at that point). I told him I didn't feel comfortable buying a house when I haven't even learned the area yet. Weeks went by and his behavior towards me only got worse. Everything seemed to be about him and every time that expressed my needs or feelings I was told I was "nagging him" or giving him a "guilt trip". He started telling me that he thought I had a "mental" problem and that I should go to the doctor. I knew I didn't have a mental problem and that it was his behavior that was making me feel depressed. One day he tells me that he is going to have me committed when I told him I was tired of being treated the way he treated me. I told him that I was not "crazy" and that if this was how I was going to be treated then I didn't know if I wanted to be with him. He told me to leave his mothers house and told me that I couldn't have the children! Mind you I came to this state with no family or friends for his child and him so I had nowhere to go! I apologized to him so that he wouldn't kick me out and waited til the next day and ran with the children back to the state where I'm from! He tried to file a "protective order" against me for the kids stating that I was mentally unstable and that I was a danger to them. We started a custody battle. Well my dumb a** started to believe him when he told me that he had changed and that me and the boys should go back. We went back because I hoped that there was still hope for our marriage! Big mistake! Its been six months that we have been at his mothers and he shows no interest in us moving out! Him and his family talk down to me like I'm a dog everyday and undermind me as a parent to my children. Every time I tell him that I am not ok with being treated this way he tells me that I have a "mental" problem and tries to get to me to go to the doctor! I think he is just trying to get leverage over me in the event of a custody battle and I'm scared! I can't leave him because I have no family anymore and I don't have any way to support the children and he plays dirty and he would never let me have my belongings or the children if he could help it! Is this abuse?