Friday, August 5, 2011
Should I take my son 600 miles away from his dad?
My boyfriend and I broke up this morning and I need some unbiased opinions. We have a 2 year old son together. My bf is a neglectful father,he never wanted to have kids and he usually doesnt want to be bothered with them. He's also a truck driver and is gone most of the week and with his friends most of the weekend. However, my son loves his daddy and his face just lights up when he sees him. I dont want to have any part in keeping them apart. My choices are moving a couple hours away close to my sister and grandparents. They could see each other whenever my baby's father wanted to. The problem is I really dont want to. I want to go home where I grew up and all of my friends are and most of my family. Its about 600 miles from here. That would really put a limit on how much the baby sees his dad and paternal family. I would have a support group and be healthier mentally and would be able to work. I cant work now because I dont have a reliable babysitter and day care is outrageous and my older son wont have a way from school to daycare. What would the right thing to do be?
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