Thought I would ask the Gay Community, just to see their take of this:?

Its impossible to say exactly where you will find that special woman that you can have an intimate emotional relationship with. I would suggest you start by getting involved in activities ( such as clubs, classes, volunteer opportunities, sports league, church, part time job etc.) that interest you and hopefully find another woman that you have something in common with and start from there. You need to step outside your box/ comfort zone and make yourself available (and vulnerable too) before you get the type of relationship you seek.